Describe five ways that you have human capital that is truly unique:
1) I am good at making long term connections and friendships with people in short periods of time. Frequently when I meet people I quickly form a connection with them which often leads to a long term friendship which is extremely useful for networking.
2) I am well-spoken and able to speak publicly and confidently relatively easily. I am able to speak in-front of a room with ease and explaining and describing ideas or asking for things that I feel I deserve or want have never been a difficulty of mine.
3) I thrive in group exercises. I thoroughly enjoy working with a group and problem solving with others. I am good at compromising and voicing my opinion in a respectful, polite yet stern and confident manner.
4) I am persuasive. I have work experience in sales and have always been persuasive. I am good at arguing my points and convincing others of my opinions or beliefs.
5) I am hard working. While being hard working is not a unique trait, staying level headed, being dependable and always working longer hours than my peers has always been a trait I take pride in. Many hard workers become consumed by stress and burn out, however my ability to maintain a level head and stay focused, calm and collected is a unique trait that I believe I possess.
Interview five people who know you best and ask them what makes you different:
1) Ophir (Best friend)-
Ophir is my best friend from childhood, while he lives in California now he and I still talk everyday. I was surprised that he thought my most different trait is my optimism. While I never really noticed it, I guess I do take things in stride and not let them affect me too seriously. To be honest, I am not sure how much this helps as an entrepreneur but I imagine it definitely has benefits.
2) Layla (Sister)-
My sister said that my work ethic is what makes me different. It seems as though while we were growing up she consistently would notice how hard I worked and motivated her to work hard. I did not really think I worked that hard when I was younger, but that is all relative and at the time I imagine what I was doing did feel and look like hard work.
3) Param (roommate)-
Param said that the trait that differentiates me is that I am fair. He believes that I am trustworthy and always will admit when I am wrong. This is something that is hard to recognize about yourself, even though I definitely try to embody those traits.
4) David (Dad)-
My Dad believes that the trait that separates me is my charisma. He said that I am good at making friends and making people feel important. He thinks that I am very friendly and social and it is very useful in business.
5) Carlos (roommate)-
Carlos, my roommate, said something very similar to Ophir. He said I am happy and optimistic and don’t let things slow me down. I am always focused on the present and future rather than letting setbacks get me down. He believes this is an excellent trait for business and very unique.
Reflect on the differences:
Overall, I think that what I said and what they said are very similar. I did not expect two of them to say my best trait is my optimism, but I suppose this is expected considering I am usually talking to them when relaxing rather than working. Most of them do not see me when I am working on group projects or private assignments and studying. However, I think that there are not many differences and they assess me very similarly to how I assessed myself. I believe this is a sign of self-awareness, which is a good thing to have. If I were to change my list, perhaps I would replace my persuasiveness with my optimism. I believe that persuasiveness could be shown in some of the other traits, while being optimistic and having the ability to overcome setbacks is very valuable and something I hardly realized I possessed.